There are two kinds of people in the world: sea people and sun people. When you were born, you were born to parents, and those parents had already decided which sort of people they were. You had not. That's the challenge that you face.
When you first leave home, you will feel a tug. That tug will tell you that home is where you belong. By the time you reach the shore, the old yearning will return. That which first drove you to leave your home- that will have taken over. There are two kinds of people in the world.